They're Here!

Okay, so I thought that we were going to make it out of the 2's without ever having the terrible part! WOW! I was wrong!

Right at the end of August it was seriously like someone had taken my sweet little boy and replaced him with this a clingy, defiant boy.

It all started one night, the boy who never had a problem going into his room to sleep would NOT go into his bed. Screaming and crying he would say "I don't like my bed" "mommy, don't leave me." It was almost like a switched was flipped.

This happened at night and at naps, so I had a non-sleeping two year old who was so cranky during the day. Poor thing was just so overtired that everything was dramatized. Everything was a big deal and the tantrums would last for what felt like hours.

He would only let me hold him and nobody else. He wouldn't let Brian put on his shoes or really even come in the same room without throwing a fit.

I really didn't know what to do. I was hysterical and so tired from being pregnant and just the sudden change in Oak was just so crazy to me. I just couldn't fix it and that bothered me.

One night I had to leave him in his room screaming, I had to sit in my closet with worship music and just praying because I couldn't handle listening to him cry! It was so sad! He began jumping out of his crib, not so much jumping as just flopping out onto the ground and he spent a few nights just sleeping on the floor.

I am glad that I am writing this with a little distance between me and these events, otherwise you would have seen a crazy side of me and for anyone who I talked to in those times, I apologize because I was crazy!

It actually ended up being a great thing. I think that Oak was just becoming more independent and was almost fighting growing up. He didn't like it when we called him a big boy, but insisted on being a baby.

It was during this time, however, we switched him to a big boy bed because he couldn't stay in his crib jumping out. Also, he decided to be potty trained. Seriously, he just decided that he wanted to start using the potty. It is funny to me because I had this goal that by January that he would be out of his crib, no paci and begin potty train. The kid however, fast tracked me and decided that all of these things needed to happen on his time and not mine.

The nighttime sleep fixed itself after the beach. Naps took a little longer to get back on track and are still a little iffy, but it is a joy to be around our son. It is the sweetest thing to put him to sleep at night! We do our book or story (he loves made up stories about Baby Philipe or jessie from Toy Story) and our songs. He then gives "best hug" and "best kiss" and says goodnight and rolls over.

We have our sweet, playful, little boy back who is a joy to be around, with the occasional tantrum that are much more manageable now! I really love this age!! I will write more about Oak as a two year old later!

Beach Baby

Some of my favorite times with Oak over the summer were spent at the beach! We got to go to the beach twice this summer and both were just AMAZING!

Our first trip to the beach was just after my birthday in July. Oak had been talking about it for so long and each day he would think that it was the day to go. Whenever we asked him what he was excited about he would say, "big waves," "kites" and "sand castles." He really couldn't wait!

I LOVE the beach! I love spending the day laying out on the sand reading a book, getting in the water when I get hot. I was a little nervous about how adding a child would "cramp" my beach style. Sounds a little selfish, I know, but it is true. And when we went when Oak was just one, it was so hard because he just wanted to run into the water and wouldn't sit still for a second.

I never knew the beach could be so much more fun when you do other things besides just lay out! Brian, Oak and I spent one whole day on the beach and it really might be run of my favorite days EVER! Oak loved being in the water and thought it was so fun when the big waves knocked him down. We couldn't keep him out of the water.

Our second beach trip was with Brian's brother Kevin and his wife BethAnne. We went the week of Labor Day to Nags Head, which was amazing! Oak loves BA and Kevin. They are both doctor and he refers to them as the "little doctor" and "big doctor."

I was a little nervous how this week was going to go because Oak had turned into a "terrible two" a few days before that, which I will write about later. It was so great though!

We stayed right across the street from the beach so it was so nice to be able to spend the mornings at the beach, come back for lunch and naps and then head back out to the beach for the evening. It made it easy for me to take him by myself while Brian worked.

Again, he just loved being in the "big waves." It was amazing to me how he didn't mind getting knocked down, he would just stand up and say "that was funny." He really is such a fun kid.

He met some knew friends at the beach too! There was a little girl named Aubrey and a little boy that Oak would look forward to seeing each morning out on the beach. He played with them in the sand and the water. He loved chasing the sandpipers back and forth on the beach.

Nags Head also had so many other things to offer besides the beach. We spent one morning going Jockey's Ridge, which are these huge sand dunes. Oak climbed all around them! It was awesome! He called them sand mountains! I couldn't believe how well he climbed all around!

He spent one morning fishing with daddy, uncle Kevin, Dan and Grandmom. He even kissed a fish and we still act out fishing and a fish always bites our finger like it did Dan.

Another favorite thing we did was the aquarium. Wow! That was awesome! Oak's favorite thing at the aquarium had to be the sea urchins. He loved those!

I can't wait to go back to the beach next year and neither can Oak. If you come to our house now, you will find all of the cushions from our couch in the playroom on the floor because Oak pretends it is the big waves. Each day he goes swimming in the big waves and gets very upset if we put them back on the couch.

The cousins are coming!

The last week in August was one of our favorite weeks of the summer! Brian's oldest brother, Jim, and his wife Kristy and their two kids Aidan and Kieran came here spent the week. Aidan is 4 and Kieran is just a few months older than Oak. We had been talking about them coming for so long and Oak just couldn't wait to see them! All he really knew was that Aidan was the "big one" and Kieran was the "little one."

We were so excited to see them because the boys haven't gotten to "play" together since Oak was six months old. We always loving seeing Jim and Kristy too!

I was very anxious to see how the boys would play together! It was amazing to me how well they played. I think that God created us so uniquely and ingrained in us something that allows us to really understand family. It was like they knew each other even though we don't get to see them too often.

We did so many fun things with them, but my favorite was just being here at the house with them and watching them interact with one another. Oak spent the next few weeks pretending he was Aidan and that I was Kieran. It was super cute.

It wasn't just a great visit for Oak and the boys, but we had such a great visit with Jim and Kristy and love hanging out with them. We really can't wait till the next time they get to come here or we can make it there! (hopefully Christmas)

Firefighter Pickles reporting for duty

As you may know Oak has a slight obsession with firefighters and firetrucks, so I think that he might have just had the best weekend of his entire life!

A friend of ours invited us to take a tour of the Fuquay-Varina fire department on Friday. As you can guess Oak was so excited about going to the fire station. He wore his fire hat (which is falling apart because he wears it so much) and everything right into the station.

He made himself right at home from the moment we walked in! He loved seeing where the firefighters slept, ate and hung out, but could not wait to see those firetrucks.

As we were walking out to see the trucks, one of the firefighters asked him what his name was and he said "Pickles." Ahh!! That is his pretend clown name. It was so funny! The rest of the time we were there all of the firefighters referred to him as Pickles. It was a little embarrassing.
Oak had a blast at the fire station. He loved driving the trucks and he loved giving the firefighters high-fives. The kid has no fear, which he definitely gets from his dad. All the firefighters were so sweet to him, it was an awesome time!

Today we found out about a firetruck parade in downtown Raleigh. It was so fun! There were firetrucks from all around the state. There were new ones and antiques. After it was over there was a big expo that had a zillion firetrucks that you were allowed to get in and drive. It was a blast! Oak's face was priceless as we walked up and saw all the firetrucks and he yelled "oh my goodness!"I will be really shocked if Oak does not grow up to be a firefighter!

Bye-Bye Paci

It's been a BIG week for our family. We got pictures of our new addition that will be joining us in March. It was amazing to see that little thing. I was surprised how much it looked like a baby and not just a blob. It really is amazing that there is a little person growing inside of me.

Oak loves that he is going to be a big brother and is very excited about the baby. He constantly points to my belly and says "baby out." He doesn't quite get that it is going to be a little longer. When he sees little babies, he looks at me and asks "baby ours?" Wondering if that is our baby. It is super cute. He also thinks that it comes out of my belly button, which is pretty funny. I'll leave that talk to his daddy when he is a little older.

Just as big as seeing our baby, Friday, August 6 was another big day for the Fischer household, especially for Oak. Oak has had his "ba-ba" which eventually was renamed paci since he a was a little guy, however, Brian and I decided that it was time for that thing to go bye-bye.

We decided that we would go to build a bear and let Oak build a bear and put his paci inside of the bear so it will always be with him and he would have something to sleep with and cuddle at night.

We built it up for a couple weeks that he would be able to dress a clown (because of his obsession with clowns), and that paci would go inside of the bear. He was very excited about the idea of dressing a clown.

We decided at the beginning of the week that Friday would be the day. I knew it had to be a weekend so Brian could help out more if Oak had a hard time. Driving to Crabtree was a little bittersweet to me. It was almost sad in some weird way. We were saying goodbye to something that Oak loves so much.

Oak picked out his bear and we picked out that it should be a fireman, they didn't have any clowns, probably because every other child in the world is afraid of them except for Oak. We stood in line, Oak holding his paci ready to put it in the bear. He helped the girl stuff him, he willingly put his paci in his belly next to his heart and then she sewed him up. It was over. Paci was no more. Oak named his bear Chester and even got a birth certificate for him.
Once we were home, Oak had a hard time going to sleep and kept saying "paci out belly." He eventually fell asleep and slept all night long. It has been a week and it has been way easier than I thought. Naps are a little shorter and he wakes up a little earlier in the morning, but all in all, it has been good. However, he doesn't sleep with Chester, and I think he resents him just a little bit.

One night I asked Oak what he should tell God he is thankful for and he said "paci in belly." It was really sweet. We are going to attempt potty training and a big boy bed in the near future. Hope it all goes just as smoothly.

Thirty, Flirty and Thriving

Thirty, flirty and thriving
Jul 22, 2010 7:45 AM
Only a few tears were shed as I left my 20's thanks to my amazing husband and son. I had an awesome start to my 30th year.

Oak and I spent my birthday at the pool with our friend Hannah and her daughter Anna Lewis. Taking Oak to the Y pool is one of my favorite things to do. He loves their baby pool and loves to go under the water! We always get a snack of animal crackers and juice. His favorite thing there is he spray ground! Basically it is a bunch of sprinklers coming from the ground. Oak can spend hours in there. I love watching his face while he is there. He runs around squealing from sprinkler to sprinkler.

I thought Brian, Oak and I were going to go out to eat just the three of us, but he had planned for my family and friends to surprise me there! It was such a wonderful surprise. He even took care of Oak while i got to eat. I really had no idea that he planned this! Very sneaky.

It was such a great night and could have ended there, but oh no the surprises kept coming. When i got home there was my present, my iPad!! I was so excited and i had no idea that it he was going to get it!

It was a wonderful way to begin a new decade. I still can't believe that I am 30, but I welcome the 30's and can't wait to see what they bring!
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With 2 comes...

On June 3, 2008 our lives were forever changed with the birth of sweet little Oak. On June 3, 2010 our lives again were changed with the welcoming of Oak's 2's. With the age of 2 has come so many amazing things!
Imagination- Oak has an UNBELIEVABLE imagination! He loves to "tend" (pretend)! He has two imaginary friends, clown and wolfpack. I took him to see Ronald McDonald preform on his birthday and since he has been obsessed with clowns. He walks around with clown, he pretends to juggle with his clown, even loses his ball and has to find it, clown sometime sleeps in his bed. It sort of creeps me out a little bit considering I find clowns rather scary. He loves the wolfpack and carries him around. They play hide and seek often.He also enjoys playing the officer game. He pretends to be an officer or firefighter and rides around giving people tickets or putting out fires. My favorite is when he pretends to climb a ladder and save a cat.
Vocabulary-The kid can talk! It's unreal how is vocabulary has gone from just a few words to being able to form sentences and carry conversation. This has been one of my favorite things because I feel like each day he says something new.
Independence- Oak is so independent now. It sort of borders on defiant, but he's 2, right? I am constantly hearing "No mommy help" or "by self'." He loves to do things by himself.
We took him to see the fireworks on July 4! He loved it and was terrified at the same time. He wouldn't let go of me. We took him again on the 5th and he just wanted to sit by himself. He is constantly walking around saying "boom, boom, boom."
Fashion- He will only wear shirts with characters, like Batman, Elmo, Thomas, Spiderman, Diego, Cars. Seriously, he has no idea who these people are but will only take one off to put another one on. We are very thankful for our handy-me-downs that have supplied his wardrobe.
All in all we have embraced these 2's and are really enjoying all the changes they are bringing. We hope that they don't turn to terrible.